Beauty Amulets: Orchid and Her Kajal
I bought this little kajal (or 'sormeh' in Farsi) pot with my mum from the chaotic Tehran bazaar the last time I was there, and it's always felt like it's carried a special ancestral kind of energy for me. Ironically, it was on a day that me and my mum managed to escape what feels like millions of amazing family members we are surrounded by there, and experience the city just as ourselves.
I love the pot itself and its almost cliché Iranian bright blues and whites, and middle eastern curves that echo iconic buildings and women's figures alike in tiny form. I also love the blackness of the sormeh powder itself - I'd specifically been looking for something like that while we were there since nothing in the UK ever seems to be black enough to bring out my dark eyes.___STEADY_PAYWALL___
In my mind, 'beauty' and my heritage have always been at odds with each other. When I was younger I found it difficult to see that they could coexist, as all the beauty and makeup advice that I saw seemed to be a detailed guide on how to erase my natural features - hair (and a lot of it, everywhere), dark circles and deep set eyes, and a bigger nose, and that's just from the neck up. So I steered well clear of a whole area of feminine expression I didn't think was meant for me. But this little liner helped me see otherwise.
Now, I imagine this little, ornately painted, traditional pot, a beauty item that's perfectly designed for my shape of eyes, filled with powder that's deeply dark enough for my complexion - in the hands of generations of incredible women who looked not too different to me to bring out a beauty that they owned, and in a strange way I feel empowered and protected by them. In another sense too, I haven't been home to see my family for a few years now and it reminds me of this whole other part of myself that feels cut off right now - especially right now - and every time I use and look at it, the deeper I go into its geometric details, the more vivid the memories of people, places, tastes, sounds, and energies, flood back.